Yael Clark, Developmental Psychologist

The Internet can be a useful source of parenting information. In fact, in my family we often say, “Ask Aunty Google” (or Dr. Google for medical self-diagnosis). It is important, however, to ensure that the information is from a credible source. Aunties (and some doctors!) have a habit of giving advice that may have worked for them but may not work for you, advice that has not been scientifically tested for helpfulness or harmfulness. You can confidently use articles that…

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As a fellow Psychologist, I wholeheartedly support Judy Hyde’s advice (Colliding in the Classroom) and applaud Lucinda Bertram’s inclusion of the views of a Psychologist. Psychologists can play an important role in the relationship between schools, children, and their parents. I must, however take issue with the inference that parents best seek out the support of a Clinical Psychologist. While all Psychologists receive the same basic training, Clinical Psychologists are trained within a medical model and specialise in the diagnosis…

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Get support! Ideals versus Reality. Do your best. Is your child’s behaviour trying to tell you that they need more attention, a feeling of control, safety or comfort? Ignore the behaviour, not the child. When what they want is not OK try to meet their need in another, acceptable way. Many behaviours are phases. Learn about child development so you have realistic expectations. Predict tantrums and learn little tricks to diffuse them before they reach the point of no return….

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